It’s a real funny world where expecting from shelf rather yields more than expecting from others.
Lets take a live example of husband wife relationships and those who are mature in a marriage like institution can well understand my view point.
Marriage is nothing but an institution of mutual sacrifice and mutual liking with an eternal promise to live together inspite of LEAN days in life.
When one of them expects more from the other without sacrificing then the mutual faith breaks and leads to family breakup which is quite common these days among the so called literate couples ultimately leading to separation.
Literacy never preaches to disrespect other’s feeling and rather it opens up eyes through education to respect and honour the other ones views and likings.