A……C O N F E S S I O N
A lot of families (I mean it to only married couples) now a days suffer like anything from misunderstandings leading to a bitter relationship at the end of the day.
I can’t say I am a monk but….my prudence and own conjugal experiences speaks a lot,
“A good number of misunderstandings between the couples can be set aside once either the husband or the wife start to feel a compassionate feelings for the other half which in turn sends positive vibes and give a real fair enough chance to prove the person on the opposite end that he/she has really realised the mistake/misdeed and wants to mend the relationship to a shiny one.
The biggest hurdle that stops us is our own EGO and even a much bigger problem bigger than EGO is JUDGING the opposite person single handedly and even without knowing what is going on inside his/her mind.
Let’s NEVER JUDGE
Let’s NEVER CONCEIVE an OPINION unless pronounced in clear words.
Let’s NEVER FAIL TO GIVE A FAIR CHANCE to the OPPOSITE person
& WHO can say…..
HE/SHE is not a CHANGED VERSION NOW
Because WE all are CHANGING with EVERY MOMENT we are PASSING by.
A lot of PROPLE opine…..ONCE TRUST IS LOST IT CANT BE REVIVED….but I would say….EVEN LOST TRUST can be well REJUVINATED & the biggest example would be from our HINDU EPIC
•DASHYU RATNAKAR turning into RISHI VALMIKI• who ultimately wrote “RAMAYANA”.
Let’s give a BOOST to HAPPY WEDDED LIFE.
Just my own #thoughts put to words and I would be happy if you come out and share your views.