I am from the era of "legal marriage" & it's such an institution where both tie their knots to live together with all possible conjugal as well as material happiness possible and it has different names in different religion like (निकाह )NIKAH in MUSLIM RELIGION , (बिबाह ) BIBAH as per HINDUISM & NARRIAGE in CHRISTIANITY but the ultimate GOAL is to
"LEAD A HAPPY LIFE EVER AFTER".
Does it happen the way it is supposed to be ?
Toughest Qestion for every "married couple" & they should ponder 🤔 on it and I am sure when we are the "BEST BRAIN ANIMALS"with "BEST LOGICS"ever born on this PLANET 🌎 among all MAMMALS.
Among all if I include our "HUMAN RACE" a part of the greater "ANIMAL KINGDOM"….only we the present time "HOMO-SAPIENS" live a happy conjugal life with PRUDENCE ofcourse being (as MARRIED) or present day (we name it as LIVE-IN-RELATIONSHIP) or what ever new name we keep on adding to that •staying together promise•.
Mostly the STORY of NEWLY-WED are same in all religions across the Globe 🌎 & as life passes by and we as married couples are blessed with our off-springs there comes a TIME when THE BONDAGE needs MORE & MORE a personal TOUCH & RE-THINKING and being MORE CONSIDERATE to the needs of SPOUSES.
Men are INVARIABLY built with SUPER-EGO being STRONGER in decision making and taking tasks which require PHYSICAL SKILLS where as these days Women are no less in all those INSTINCTS which Men were considering their DOMAIN ONLY in earlier days in both WESTERN as well as ORIENTAL CULTURE across the GLOBE I would rather say.
Women by virtue of their birth are more CARING than the Men in general and remain the same till the end , where as Men need to mend their mindset to consider what ever services their better-half gives in up-bringing of THEIR OFF-SPRINGS as a PRICE-LESS gift from the LADY-of-the-HOUSE.
(WOMEN in MOST) in return just wish a smallest thing or you can call it a smallest expectation….
That THEIR Men should never CHEAT them IN-DISGUISE in any way andRECOGNISE her SERVICE for the FAMILY till last as a TOKEN OF CARING a man can express being EGOISTIC.
A small advise….
"A small gift or a kiss 😘 even when you get-up from bed….can fill HER DAY with a BLOOMING FACE OF CONTENTMENT".
Not just me…..anybody I am sure can put million words how to take care of YOUR WOMAN in LIFE.
At the end I would definitely put my THEME of my STORY…..
"WOMEN are LIKE FLOWERS 🌺 & are AGE-LESS CREATIONS OF GOD….let's LOVE ❤️ THEM THE WAY THEY FEEL THEY ARE BING LOVED ❤️ From HEART ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️"she would feel"You made Her day".
These are my own words from my Heart & we all are Humans and to "err is human" but I am sure "We all can CHANGE FROM THIS MOMENT".
We as individual should always remember….change is the only constant remaining all others variable….
Let me be honest…..it's a mix of my own experience and some external knowledge gathered after years of conjugal life that I have tried to put in to words , so I invite debates as well to "enrich my knowledge-bank on man-woman relationships".
I would like to tag Divyanka Krshna a
beautiful young writer from India.Her website is womenlite.com add is https://clicksbysiba.wordpress.com/2017/07/07/women-need-an-extra-pinch-of-love/